In my Phoenix Bankruptcy practice, a commonly asked question is: “Can I keep one credit card?” I have been asked this question many times throughout the years. I think the two main reasons this question comes up is: 1) We feel a certain loyalty to our banks; and 2) We fear the “What Ifs”.
But I’ve banked there for years!
Maybe you have lived in the Phoenix area for many years, and banked with the same bank for decades. You probably feel a certain loyalty to that bank and you want to maintain that relationship even after bankruptcy. The amount of loyalty people feel for their bank is strong. I know I feel certain loyalty to my bank because I’ve had the same account since 1993. But, I ask people, “Did the bank help you when you called them to tell them you needed some extra time to pay, or a lower interest rate? Did the bank offer to lower the balance after you’ve paid well over what you’ve spent? Did they care when you told them you lost your job, and your unemployment is running out?” Most often the answer is “No.” Even if the answer is “yes”… the banks don’t help for as long as you’ve been a customer, do they? They may “help” for up to three months, but how helpful is that in the long run? The truth is, the bank feels no loyalty towards you and because you are filing for bankruptcy – you should give yourself a true fresh start by cutting all ties to your unsecured creditors (credit cards).
But, what if…
We have all learned to depend on credit cards. We fear a life without them. Along with the normal stress of considering bankruptcy, you are probably also overwhelmed with “what-ifs” – What if a medical emergency happens after I file for bankruptcy? What if the car breaks down? What if the air conditioner breaks? How will we pay for life’s emergencies without a credit card? The goal after bankruptcy should be to create a whole new mindset about money and credit. Start a savings plan so that you have the cash if an emergency pops up. I know, it sounds impossible because you are barely living paycheck to paycheck now. But, have you sat down and been honest with yourselves about what your spending habits are? Take a day, or a week, and write down everything you spend. I think you may be surprised to find just how much you spend on fast food, coffee shops, and convenience store treats. Take an honest look at your grocery list, do you buy what you need – or a little bit more? Living without credit cards can be done. Living without credit cards should be done so that you don’t ever again feel overwhelmed with interest rates, balances, and payments to creditors. Life without credit cards would be like having true freedom. Life without debt, imagine that.




